It's amazing where your brain can go on a nice day as you guide your mower over a lawn crying out for a little time and attention. ( No MP3 players or even a radio!)
I finally got to the yard after work last night and found myself thinking about a variety of things- from the mundane (I wonder if we have anything in the house for dinner) to the legacy I'll leave after I die and make my home in Heaven.
Let's focus on the legacy part shall we? Back in November of 2007, I made some handwritten notes about things I wanted to have included as part of my memorial / celebration service. I reasoned since I wouldn't be here, now would actually be the ideal time to share some things I feel strongly about. Things I want to emphasize.
From time to time in the past four years I'd run across this note--- see the words "My funeral" at the top...and just keep on working.
About a year and a half ago, a friend (under 60) died of cancer. I had talked very directly with Kent about how his life perspective had been radically altered with his diagnosis. Susie and I attended his funeral.
There's something about losing someone who is close to your age to get your attention. Still, it took me another 18 months to actually carve out the time and type up the notes on my funeral service.
So what did I address? Things like Bible verses, a note to my wife and kids. Who I'd like to have speak. Some song suggestions. Stuff like that. And I have to tell you, when I finished, I found myself feeling a fresh wave of gratitude- for my wife, kids, work, experiences, life and health.
I am a blessed man.
Ok, so, how does this apply to you? I hope in a couple of specific ways. First- PLEASE be sure you know Jesus--- That way everything before us is better than we can possibly imagine. Second- Be sure you have a WILL. Help the folks who will be left behind you know what you want done with your earthly resources. Thirdly- I hope you will find yourself grateful- like I did- for God's daily and abundant blessings.
I enjoyed getting the yard cut- it always looks so much better! There is still trimming to do- I look forward to another chance to think- and count my blessings.
Friday, October 21, 2011
Tuesday, October 11, 2011
I'm Diving In...
Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways submit to Him, and he will make your paths straight. (Proverbs 3:5-6 NIV)
Remember a couple of weeks ago, when I blogged about seasons and change in your life? I talked about how I was going through a season of change and not knowing where God is calling me to be. Now comes the next step...
I am going to be starting a new chapter in my life. Uncharted territory, thanks to God! Now, I'm going all the way in, trust that it's His will and not mine.
After 21 years of doing traffic, I will be joining the J93.3 staff on a full time basis as the station's church specialist (along with being on the air! That's not changing!). An exciting time for me, yet also nerve-wracking. I'm breaking out of my comfort zone. Twenty one years of talking about accidents, stalls, construction, or delays, whether they were on the Downtown Connector or the Long Island Expressway.
Now, I'm taking that leap of faith. There were many times where my human condition would take over, and questions would arise.
- Can I really do this?
- I'm "comfortable" doing what I have been doing for so many years. Why change?
- You never take chances.
I have been known to settle. Not anymore. That's because I'm growing in my walk with Christ everyday. And trusting Him more and more. I've seen proof that He does act, He does provide, He does keep you safe from harm.
God has His way of making sure you get the message. The day after I was officially offered and accepted the position, I was to lead music worship at Peachtree City SDA Church. The speaker for the day was talking about the passage above. How the Israelites were told to trust God, and they were protected. I chose this song to emphasize his message. It's a Steven Curtis Chapman classic, but the message means so much more now.
(Note: this is Steven's new version off his latest CD- Re-creation. I love this one!)
Are you hesitant to make a change in your life? Is God calling you to do something? Let's close our eyes and count to three, and take the leap of faith.
Come on let's go!
Remember a couple of weeks ago, when I blogged about seasons and change in your life? I talked about how I was going through a season of change and not knowing where God is calling me to be. Now comes the next step...
I am going to be starting a new chapter in my life. Uncharted territory, thanks to God! Now, I'm going all the way in, trust that it's His will and not mine.
After 21 years of doing traffic, I will be joining the J93.3 staff on a full time basis as the station's church specialist (along with being on the air! That's not changing!). An exciting time for me, yet also nerve-wracking. I'm breaking out of my comfort zone. Twenty one years of talking about accidents, stalls, construction, or delays, whether they were on the Downtown Connector or the Long Island Expressway.
Now, I'm taking that leap of faith. There were many times where my human condition would take over, and questions would arise.
- Can I really do this?
- I'm "comfortable" doing what I have been doing for so many years. Why change?
- You never take chances.
I have been known to settle. Not anymore. That's because I'm growing in my walk with Christ everyday. And trusting Him more and more. I've seen proof that He does act, He does provide, He does keep you safe from harm.
God has His way of making sure you get the message. The day after I was officially offered and accepted the position, I was to lead music worship at Peachtree City SDA Church. The speaker for the day was talking about the passage above. How the Israelites were told to trust God, and they were protected. I chose this song to emphasize his message. It's a Steven Curtis Chapman classic, but the message means so much more now.
(Note: this is Steven's new version off his latest CD- Re-creation. I love this one!)
Are you hesitant to make a change in your life? Is God calling you to do something? Let's close our eyes and count to three, and take the leap of faith.
Come on let's go!
Friday, September 16, 2011
The Veil of Pain
I guess everyone’s got to have their 1st blog ever! Partly I’ve been avoiding THE BLOG to annoy Jerry. :) But the real reason; it’s difficult to share the written word… it’s way easier for me to chat on-air. I’ve always journaled my deepest thoughts and feelings to the Lord! It’s like letting you read my journal. I don’t even let my hubby, Trey, do that. Plus, I don’t want to be depressing. But if I’m gonna blog, I’m gonna be myself.
The “joy of the Lord” is literally my strength from one moment to the next. I see the world, my job, my family and my friends through a thick veil of physical pain.
And I’m not alone. A recent report * shows that more than 1.5 billion people worldwide suffer from chronic pain. That breaks down into the major categories of migraines, low back pain, cancer pain, arthritis pain and neurogenic pain. That last one… neurogenic pain is where I live. It’s pain resulting from damage to the peripheral and/or central nervous system.
Best the docs (and there have been a lot of docs) can tell, it’s a genetic disorder that came to the surface after I had four surgeries back-to-back. For the past year, this nerve damage has decided to settle in my face… It’s called Trigeminal Neuralgia… or how about it’s nickname, “the suicide disease.” The pain from this disorder is so horrific that, well, it explains itself.
There is no cure… only procedures and pills and prayer. I’m praying for remission or healing of the nerve.
“But you sound so happy on the radio, and you look good,” a lot of people say. I am joyful. Not very happy. There is a HUGE difference. I desperately want my life back. More difficult than the physical pain, has been the emotional pain of not being understood. I have to say ‘no’ to so many things. And a GREAT day is when I am able to get dressed, put on make-up, fix my hair and still be in good enough condition to leave the house with a smile after all that hard labor. That’s why you will see me in a hat and sunglasses with no make-up most of the time. I come “as is” a lot! :)
While I wait for healing or remission, I am learning so much about “His presence in times of trouble.” Psalm 46:1. James 1:2-4 has become extremely real to me. “Count it ALL joy when you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.”
Sheila and I were “pain buddies.” I hated every minute that she suffered. I wanted to take it away. But since I couldn’t, we just talked through bad days together. And laughed a lot. As Jerry Williams said at her memorial and in a recent blog, I have been left waving goodbye to her from the driveway. I am so thankful that she doesn’t hurt anymore… but that leaves me taking applications for new “pain buddies.” I know you’re out there. I know you feel alone. But you are not.
Let’s start encouraging each other and building each other up. Responding to this blog… that’s a perfect place to start.
And when you see me at an indoor event with sunglasses on, I’m not trying to be a “superstar.” I’m simply living behind my veil of pain along with 1.5 billion others.
*Report from Global Industry Analysts, January 2011
The “joy of the Lord” is literally my strength from one moment to the next. I see the world, my job, my family and my friends through a thick veil of physical pain.
And I’m not alone. A recent report * shows that more than 1.5 billion people worldwide suffer from chronic pain. That breaks down into the major categories of migraines, low back pain, cancer pain, arthritis pain and neurogenic pain. That last one… neurogenic pain is where I live. It’s pain resulting from damage to the peripheral and/or central nervous system.
Best the docs (and there have been a lot of docs) can tell, it’s a genetic disorder that came to the surface after I had four surgeries back-to-back. For the past year, this nerve damage has decided to settle in my face… It’s called Trigeminal Neuralgia… or how about it’s nickname, “the suicide disease.” The pain from this disorder is so horrific that, well, it explains itself.
There is no cure… only procedures and pills and prayer. I’m praying for remission or healing of the nerve.
“But you sound so happy on the radio, and you look good,” a lot of people say. I am joyful. Not very happy. There is a HUGE difference. I desperately want my life back. More difficult than the physical pain, has been the emotional pain of not being understood. I have to say ‘no’ to so many things. And a GREAT day is when I am able to get dressed, put on make-up, fix my hair and still be in good enough condition to leave the house with a smile after all that hard labor. That’s why you will see me in a hat and sunglasses with no make-up most of the time. I come “as is” a lot! :)
While I wait for healing or remission, I am learning so much about “His presence in times of trouble.” Psalm 46:1. James 1:2-4 has become extremely real to me. “Count it ALL joy when you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.”
Sheila and I were “pain buddies.” I hated every minute that she suffered. I wanted to take it away. But since I couldn’t, we just talked through bad days together. And laughed a lot. As Jerry Williams said at her memorial and in a recent blog, I have been left waving goodbye to her from the driveway. I am so thankful that she doesn’t hurt anymore… but that leaves me taking applications for new “pain buddies.” I know you’re out there. I know you feel alone. But you are not.
Let’s start encouraging each other and building each other up. Responding to this blog… that’s a perfect place to start.
And when you see me at an indoor event with sunglasses on, I’m not trying to be a “superstar.” I’m simply living behind my veil of pain along with 1.5 billion others.
*Report from Global Industry Analysts, January 2011
Tuesday, September 13, 2011
There Is A Season...
Summer coming to an end. Fall around the corner. Time for lots of change- leaves turning, cooler weather, longer nights. We, too, go through seasons in our own lives. Maybe there are changes in a relationship in your life, or maybe you're wanting a change in career paths. Change isn't easy. Depending on the type of change, it may not be fun, either.
I write this as I reflect on a time in my life right now where I know God is calling me to make a change in my path. I usually resist change, but I actually have been excited about His call for something different for me. Now, I've been searching to find where God wants me to be. At times, it can be difficult. Being human and always susceptible to mistakes (and I've may QUITE a few), I want to take over and do what I believe to know is right. At least, when I'm in prayer, God says to me, "Hello! I'm the one that supposed to be in control, not you!". Each day, I work on letting Him just take over and guide me to where He knows I will do the best work for His glory.
Impatience also creeps up to me at times. Is it now? Why isn't it now? When is it going to happen? AGGGGHHHH! The human mind starts racing, questioning, not letting it go. This is when I need to focus on Ecclesiastes 3:11-
He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the human heart, yet no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end.
Are you going through a change of seasons in your life? We may not like it at times, we may fight it, we get antsy for it to happen. All in God's time. He has the plan for us, and it all for good. Not just our good, but His good.
Jeremiah 29:11- For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
I write this as I reflect on a time in my life right now where I know God is calling me to make a change in my path. I usually resist change, but I actually have been excited about His call for something different for me. Now, I've been searching to find where God wants me to be. At times, it can be difficult. Being human and always susceptible to mistakes (and I've may QUITE a few), I want to take over and do what I believe to know is right. At least, when I'm in prayer, God says to me, "Hello! I'm the one that supposed to be in control, not you!". Each day, I work on letting Him just take over and guide me to where He knows I will do the best work for His glory.
Impatience also creeps up to me at times. Is it now? Why isn't it now? When is it going to happen? AGGGGHHHH! The human mind starts racing, questioning, not letting it go. This is when I need to focus on Ecclesiastes 3:11-
He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the human heart, yet no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end.
Are you going through a change of seasons in your life? We may not like it at times, we may fight it, we get antsy for it to happen. All in God's time. He has the plan for us, and it all for good. Not just our good, but His good.
Jeremiah 29:11- For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
Wednesday, August 31, 2011
As Sheila Said, "It's Okay..."
I am sure, by now, you have seen the video made by Community Christian Church in Sharpsburg about our beloved Sheila. Let me share a little bit more that surrounds that video.
First off, if you haven't seen the video, here it is-
I am one of the worship leaders at CCC, and led worship on Easter Sunday- the day the video aired. Right out of the video, I sang the great song by Chris Tomlin, "I Will Rise". Once I was told that the video was about Sheila, I kept joking with her that she was going to make me cry in front of so many people! (I cry easily- but that's for another blog...)
She was having a rough week around Easter, but insisted that she wanted to stop by and see the video and hear me sing the song, and I told her when it would come up in the service. I managed to get through the first two services with a little bit of tearing up.
Third service comes, and I'm sitting on stage during communion, waiting for the video and song, and Sheila comes walking in. She was determined to be there, and she did it! At that point, everything took on a whole new meaning to me. It wasn't sadness anymore that my dear friend was struggling. It was finally getting what she was saying in the video- that our pain that we all suffer pales in comparison to what Jesus must have physically felt for us dying on that cross!
That is just one of the many ways that Sheila helped me put things into perspective. I guess you could say she was my baseball bat that would hit me over the head and knock some sense back into me!
I thought I'd post the song I Will Rise for Sheila. Not my version- I think Chris Tomlin does it so much better than me.
First off, if you haven't seen the video, here it is-
I am one of the worship leaders at CCC, and led worship on Easter Sunday- the day the video aired. Right out of the video, I sang the great song by Chris Tomlin, "I Will Rise". Once I was told that the video was about Sheila, I kept joking with her that she was going to make me cry in front of so many people! (I cry easily- but that's for another blog...)
She was having a rough week around Easter, but insisted that she wanted to stop by and see the video and hear me sing the song, and I told her when it would come up in the service. I managed to get through the first two services with a little bit of tearing up.
Third service comes, and I'm sitting on stage during communion, waiting for the video and song, and Sheila comes walking in. She was determined to be there, and she did it! At that point, everything took on a whole new meaning to me. It wasn't sadness anymore that my dear friend was struggling. It was finally getting what she was saying in the video- that our pain that we all suffer pales in comparison to what Jesus must have physically felt for us dying on that cross!
That is just one of the many ways that Sheila helped me put things into perspective. I guess you could say she was my baseball bat that would hit me over the head and knock some sense back into me!
I thought I'd post the song I Will Rise for Sheila. Not my version- I think Chris Tomlin does it so much better than me.
Thursday, August 25, 2011
Nothing Like A Clever Bumper Sticker...
... to make you stop and think.
As I was making my daily commute, I got behind a car that had this bumper sticker-
Simple, yet profound. How often do we go about complaining, or walk around stressed out due to life? Shouldn't we be "wagging our tails" more with joyfulness like a dog greeting his master, or getting a treat? I know I'm guilty of doing that. I somethimes go around and let life weigh me down instead enjoying life more and cherish all that is good because I have Christ in my life as my Lord and Savior! Each and every day, our God gives us so much to be thankful for and to enjoy.
Acts 14:17-
He has shown kindness by giving you rain from heaven and crops in their seasons; he provides you with plenty of food and fills your hearts with joy.
Simple enough, right? How about more to be joyful about!
1 John 1:7-
But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship one with another, and the blood of Jesus Christ His Son cleanses us from all sin.
I can go on and on about how we should be "wagging our tails" more with the joy we receive each and every day from our Heavenly Father.
So stop barking!
As I was making my daily commute, I got behind a car that had this bumper sticker-
Simple, yet profound. How often do we go about complaining, or walk around stressed out due to life? Shouldn't we be "wagging our tails" more with joyfulness like a dog greeting his master, or getting a treat? I know I'm guilty of doing that. I somethimes go around and let life weigh me down instead enjoying life more and cherish all that is good because I have Christ in my life as my Lord and Savior! Each and every day, our God gives us so much to be thankful for and to enjoy.
Acts 14:17-
He has shown kindness by giving you rain from heaven and crops in their seasons; he provides you with plenty of food and fills your hearts with joy.
Simple enough, right? How about more to be joyful about!
1 John 1:7-
But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship one with another, and the blood of Jesus Christ His Son cleanses us from all sin.
I can go on and on about how we should be "wagging our tails" more with the joy we receive each and every day from our Heavenly Father.
So stop barking!
Thursday, July 28, 2011
Back To School Memories
As the new school year approaches, it brings back great memories of growing up and getting ready for the new school year. Of course, my school year didn't start until the Wednesday after Labor Day, so the concept of preparing for school in late July is still foreign to me, even after 11 years of living in Atlanta!
This is my elementary school (which closed in 1978, and is now a retirement community!)-
I remember looking forward to that walk to school on the first day (yes, we WALKED to school!). Once we entered that school on the first day, it was celebration time for all the moms in the neighborhood! My mom would have all the other mothers over for a first day of school brunch!
In my high school years, I could not wait to go back, especially for my senior year. Not because it was my last year in school, but because I was getting back to seeing friends on a regular basis once again. My high school swing choir was a very close group of people. We sang throughout the hallways in between periods (especially the doo-wop songs of the late 50's and early 60's... and this was 1984!), we laughed, we held each other when there were problems. Our teacher, Mr. Ambrosino, taught us how important it was to laugh and love, and even pray! A few of us would have small group sessions after school, discussing God and how having a relationship with Him was so important. He influenced a lot of us, and we continue to stay in touch with each other to this day.
What great school memories!
This is my elementary school (which closed in 1978, and is now a retirement community!)-
I remember looking forward to that walk to school on the first day (yes, we WALKED to school!). Once we entered that school on the first day, it was celebration time for all the moms in the neighborhood! My mom would have all the other mothers over for a first day of school brunch!
In my high school years, I could not wait to go back, especially for my senior year. Not because it was my last year in school, but because I was getting back to seeing friends on a regular basis once again. My high school swing choir was a very close group of people. We sang throughout the hallways in between periods (especially the doo-wop songs of the late 50's and early 60's... and this was 1984!), we laughed, we held each other when there were problems. Our teacher, Mr. Ambrosino, taught us how important it was to laugh and love, and even pray! A few of us would have small group sessions after school, discussing God and how having a relationship with Him was so important. He influenced a lot of us, and we continue to stay in touch with each other to this day.
What great school memories!
Friday, July 22, 2011
Well Connected?
There is no doubt that we are pummeled with tons of messages everyday- many of them designed to entice us to purchase or try a product or service.
I read recently that we take in as much information in one day as folks several decades ago were exposed to over the course of a year!
We're not entirely innocent victims here- some of us constantly have our eyes glued to our smartphones and other technology. In Philadelphia now police have begun writing tickets for pedestrians who are walking and texting without paying attention to their surroundings.
So- here's the question- how much are we created to "take in" each day? How much is healthy and helpful? What are we choosing to expose ourselves to? At the end of the day, are our lives richer and more fufilled because of our level of connectedness?
Try this-- UNplug from your tech toys for a night- day- or weekend...and watch what happens. That'll tell you quite a bit about where you're at with these things.
Check your focus- Remember these words:
Isaiah 51:6 Lift up your eyes to the heavens, look at the earth beneath; the heavens will vanish like smoke, the earth will wear out like a garment and its inhabitants die like flies. But my salvation will last forever, my righteousness will never fail.
Thanks for joining me weekday afternoons. Thanks to for being part of our J93.3 listening family. Please PRAY specifically for our upcoming Sharathon- It starts August 15th.
Steve
I read recently that we take in as much information in one day as folks several decades ago were exposed to over the course of a year!
We're not entirely innocent victims here- some of us constantly have our eyes glued to our smartphones and other technology. In Philadelphia now police have begun writing tickets for pedestrians who are walking and texting without paying attention to their surroundings.
So- here's the question- how much are we created to "take in" each day? How much is healthy and helpful? What are we choosing to expose ourselves to? At the end of the day, are our lives richer and more fufilled because of our level of connectedness?
Try this-- UNplug from your tech toys for a night- day- or weekend...and watch what happens. That'll tell you quite a bit about where you're at with these things.
Check your focus- Remember these words:
Isaiah 51:6 Lift up your eyes to the heavens, look at the earth beneath; the heavens will vanish like smoke, the earth will wear out like a garment and its inhabitants die like flies. But my salvation will last forever, my righteousness will never fail.
Thanks for joining me weekday afternoons. Thanks to for being part of our J93.3 listening family. Please PRAY specifically for our upcoming Sharathon- It starts August 15th.
Steve
Wednesday, July 13, 2011
The Gift of Love and Family
Yesterday was my birthday. I received many birthday wishes through social media, and a couple of text messages. it does make you feel warm and fuzzy inside, in a virtual sort of way. But let me tell you about the greatest gift I received. One that will be a lasting memory.
I'm in the middle of a trip back to my hometown on Long Island. It is the first time in over 10 years that the entire family has been able to go. One of the people I wanted to see in the worst way was my Uncle Alan. He is my mom's only sibling. I lost my mom to lupus back in 1993, and have such great memories of spending time with her side of the family, including my uncle. So I made every effort to see if he was going to be around during this week. It so happens that the only day he and my Aunt Pat could get together was Tuesday July 12th. Honestly, I really didn't put it all together that it was my birthday. Packed the family up, met my brother and his family, and off we went for the hour drive out to beautiful Mattituck, on Long Island's North Fork.
The entire time was filled with love. Catching up on each others lives. Great laughs at watching the kids play in the pool. Having my cousin stop by who I haven't seen in over 15 years. Reliving the fun times we had in the past. Remembering my mom. It was just about being together as a family. I could not have asked for a better birthday. Love was the center of it all...
GOD was the center of it all. This verse came to mind-
Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. (1 John 4:7)
Take the time with family. Let love be the center of it all. Let God be the center of it all.
That gift of love yesterday was truly the best birthday present I could ever receive.
I'm in the middle of a trip back to my hometown on Long Island. It is the first time in over 10 years that the entire family has been able to go. One of the people I wanted to see in the worst way was my Uncle Alan. He is my mom's only sibling. I lost my mom to lupus back in 1993, and have such great memories of spending time with her side of the family, including my uncle. So I made every effort to see if he was going to be around during this week. It so happens that the only day he and my Aunt Pat could get together was Tuesday July 12th. Honestly, I really didn't put it all together that it was my birthday. Packed the family up, met my brother and his family, and off we went for the hour drive out to beautiful Mattituck, on Long Island's North Fork.
The entire time was filled with love. Catching up on each others lives. Great laughs at watching the kids play in the pool. Having my cousin stop by who I haven't seen in over 15 years. Reliving the fun times we had in the past. Remembering my mom. It was just about being together as a family. I could not have asked for a better birthday. Love was the center of it all...
GOD was the center of it all. This verse came to mind-
Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. (1 John 4:7)
Take the time with family. Let love be the center of it all. Let God be the center of it all.
That gift of love yesterday was truly the best birthday present I could ever receive.
Wednesday, July 6, 2011
Pondering
When was the last time you ponderered something? The dictionary defines the word this way:
–verb (used without object)
1.
to consider something deeply and thoroughly; meditate (often followed by over or upon ). -or-
–verb (used with object)
2.
to weigh carefully in the mind; consider thoughtfully: He pondered his next words thoroughly.
In the culture we live in speed is highly valued- multi-tasking is considered a mandatory life skill. When asking someone what they've been up to what would your response be if they said "I've been thinking a lot about..." or "I'm pondering life and my place in it!"
We don't give enough weight to carefully considering our lives, our commitments, activities, and the impact we can have when we sit at the feet of our Master and listen to him. Think about His words and what they mean to you today.
There is a time and a place to "Be still and know that I am God". Psalm 46:10. Take time to ponder. Consider your place in this world and God's call to use your life for His Kingdom purposes.
Yes, it's something worth thinking about! Steve
–verb (used without object)
1.
to consider something deeply and thoroughly; meditate (often followed by over or upon ). -or-
–verb (used with object)
2.
to weigh carefully in the mind; consider thoughtfully: He pondered his next words thoroughly.
In the culture we live in speed is highly valued- multi-tasking is considered a mandatory life skill. When asking someone what they've been up to what would your response be if they said "I've been thinking a lot about..." or "I'm pondering life and my place in it!"
We don't give enough weight to carefully considering our lives, our commitments, activities, and the impact we can have when we sit at the feet of our Master and listen to him. Think about His words and what they mean to you today.
There is a time and a place to "Be still and know that I am God". Psalm 46:10. Take time to ponder. Consider your place in this world and God's call to use your life for His Kingdom purposes.
Yes, it's something worth thinking about! Steve
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
Now and not yet
Susie and I are planning a trip to Ireland in August. As the date for our departure gets closer our level of anticipation rises. The reality of all of the details we need to attend to begin to take more and more of our attention. Long ago I came to the realization that the planning and anticipation of the trip are an essential part of the process of the adventure.
In our lives we are pretty familiar with the "now" - our daily surroundings and habits...Ah, but the "not yet?" That can captivate us! What will the place I visit be like? Will it live up to my expectations? Will it be worth the time and money we're investing? What will we see and do? What memories will come home with us? What will the experience be like?
When we get to Ireland I'm sure we'll find high adventure. We'll see things that'll take our breath away. I am also confident there will be memories that will walk with us through the remainder of our life journey.
So my friend, what is it you're looking forward to? A move? vacation? A reunion? A promotion? What is it that has your focus and attention?
The future is bright with the promises of God. We are to "occupy until HE comes" . Make the most of the now--- and get ready for the "not yet" when we as Christ followers share eternity in HIS presence. Now that is something worth preparing for!!
In our lives we are pretty familiar with the "now" - our daily surroundings and habits...Ah, but the "not yet?" That can captivate us! What will the place I visit be like? Will it live up to my expectations? Will it be worth the time and money we're investing? What will we see and do? What memories will come home with us? What will the experience be like?
When we get to Ireland I'm sure we'll find high adventure. We'll see things that'll take our breath away. I am also confident there will be memories that will walk with us through the remainder of our life journey.
So my friend, what is it you're looking forward to? A move? vacation? A reunion? A promotion? What is it that has your focus and attention?
The future is bright with the promises of God. We are to "occupy until HE comes" . Make the most of the now--- and get ready for the "not yet" when we as Christ followers share eternity in HIS presence. Now that is something worth preparing for!!
Sunday, June 19, 2011
Thursday, June 16, 2011
Idol Worship
You may know that I am a sports fan. You hear me occasionally make reference to my favorite teams in New York. I enjoy sports, but my life doesn't revolve around if the Mets beat the Braves.
Last night, the Boston Bruins beat the Vancouver Canucks to win hockey's Stanley Cup. After the game, the people of Vancouver took to the street and started fires, vandalized stores, clashed with police, and many other outrageous acts. All of this over their hockey team losing?
Do we take our sports that seriously as well? Watch this video to put things in perspective-
Enjoy your sports. Go ahead and root for your teams. But, get more out of the events than just the score. Enjoy the relationships you have that come from sports, whether it be with teammates, fellow fans, or close friends. Be extremely grateful that we live in a land that gives us the freedom to enjoy sports. Live in God, not in the Dawgs, Yellow Jackets, Tigers, Mets, Falcons, etc...
Last night, the Boston Bruins beat the Vancouver Canucks to win hockey's Stanley Cup. After the game, the people of Vancouver took to the street and started fires, vandalized stores, clashed with police, and many other outrageous acts. All of this over their hockey team losing?
Do we take our sports that seriously as well? Watch this video to put things in perspective-
Enjoy your sports. Go ahead and root for your teams. But, get more out of the events than just the score. Enjoy the relationships you have that come from sports, whether it be with teammates, fellow fans, or close friends. Be extremely grateful that we live in a land that gives us the freedom to enjoy sports. Live in God, not in the Dawgs, Yellow Jackets, Tigers, Mets, Falcons, etc...
Wednesday, June 15, 2011
Friends are Cool!
We got the news Monday afternoon from our son- Our AC at home was NOT working! We were hours away, on our way back from out of town…and unsure what steps to take. We started out by calling an AC company. We were told they could not come out- presumably too many calls. We were also told they would charge us $98.00 to diagnose what was wrong- even before doing any repairs.
Without being asked, a good friend of ours (who knows a good deal about air conditioning) stepped in after his full day of work- came to our house- diagnosed the problem- got the needed part-and made the repair.
By the time we got home (three hours later) the AC was on and the house was in the process of cooling down. Obviously our friends (who live about 30 minutes away from us) had other plans for their evening besides coming to our house and fixing our AC
However, They chose to change their plans in order to solve our problem. They unselfishly put our needs before their own.
Another vivid reminder that friends are one of life’s greatest gifts!
Without being asked, a good friend of ours (who knows a good deal about air conditioning) stepped in after his full day of work- came to our house- diagnosed the problem- got the needed part-and made the repair.
By the time we got home (three hours later) the AC was on and the house was in the process of cooling down. Obviously our friends (who live about 30 minutes away from us) had other plans for their evening besides coming to our house and fixing our AC
However, They chose to change their plans in order to solve our problem. They unselfishly put our needs before their own.
Another vivid reminder that friends are one of life’s greatest gifts!
Friday, June 10, 2011
My Chains Are Gone...
Yesterday, a friend of mine asked a question that made me stop for a moment to really think. It was in an email to our worship leaders at Community Christian Church in Sharpsburg. Is there a song that really moves you when you sing it while leading worship?
It took me a while to think of one, but one song that really moves me is also a Chris Tomlin song "Amazing Grace (My Chains Are Gone)". The thought that our loving and forgiving God frees us from those chains of sin and guilt. Every time I sing that song, I just get filled with emotion to know that despite all my faults, and all my wrongs, He forgives me and still loves me. I sometimes don't feel deserving of a love like that, but He truly does!
Take a moment to watch and listen to this wonderful song.
What song moves you? Is there a line in a song or hymn that just blows you away? Feel free to share.
It took me a while to think of one, but one song that really moves me is also a Chris Tomlin song "Amazing Grace (My Chains Are Gone)". The thought that our loving and forgiving God frees us from those chains of sin and guilt. Every time I sing that song, I just get filled with emotion to know that despite all my faults, and all my wrongs, He forgives me and still loves me. I sometimes don't feel deserving of a love like that, but He truly does!
Take a moment to watch and listen to this wonderful song.
What song moves you? Is there a line in a song or hymn that just blows you away? Feel free to share.
Thursday, June 2, 2011
A meeting at my front door
It happened Wednesday evening. The dog barked ( he only does that when the doorbell rings). When I got to the front door I was greated by two twenty-something members of a local church. When I stepped out on to the front landing and closed the door behind me I was wondering if I had made a mistake in answering the door at all. Both ladies had stern expressions- both had green plastic nametags - "Sister ____________" and "Sister ___________". Neither introduced themselves but instead launched in to a well rehearsed speech about my spiritual needs.
In rapid fire succession- at times talking over each other the words flowed and the speech went on. I stood in almost complete silence- the two short comments I had made were neither acknowledged or responded to. After several minutes- though it seemed much longer- I managed to hear my own voice.
Miraculously, there was a gap in the speeches and I plowed ahead with these words: " I find it amazing that you come here claiming to know my spiritual needs. You say you're motivated by the fact that you love me. That seems very strange to me since you never even asked my name." After moments of silence I was offered a small piece of literature. It was handed to me with the warning- "Now be sure to only take this if you plan to read it. We only have a limited number of them." As I turned back to the door, my uninvited guests began their walk to the next recipients of their pre-planned talks.
All of this has me thinking about all of the times I talk with someone- only thinking about my words- perhaps not even knowing the name of the person I am talking to (this happens even at church).
What is my motivation?
1) to LISTEN?
2) to HEAR the needs of the person I am interacting with?
3) Something else entirely ?
I am praying God will help me be truly motivated by love to serve those he brings me in contact with. If you truly love someone and want to share something that matters, be sure to know their name. Yes, it matters!
Steve Swanson
In rapid fire succession- at times talking over each other the words flowed and the speech went on. I stood in almost complete silence- the two short comments I had made were neither acknowledged or responded to. After several minutes- though it seemed much longer- I managed to hear my own voice.
Miraculously, there was a gap in the speeches and I plowed ahead with these words: " I find it amazing that you come here claiming to know my spiritual needs. You say you're motivated by the fact that you love me. That seems very strange to me since you never even asked my name." After moments of silence I was offered a small piece of literature. It was handed to me with the warning- "Now be sure to only take this if you plan to read it. We only have a limited number of them." As I turned back to the door, my uninvited guests began their walk to the next recipients of their pre-planned talks.
All of this has me thinking about all of the times I talk with someone- only thinking about my words- perhaps not even knowing the name of the person I am talking to (this happens even at church).
What is my motivation?
1) to LISTEN?
2) to HEAR the needs of the person I am interacting with?
3) Something else entirely ?
I am praying God will help me be truly motivated by love to serve those he brings me in contact with. If you truly love someone and want to share something that matters, be sure to know their name. Yes, it matters!
Steve Swanson
You Are More
I saw the video to the Tenth Avenue North song "You Are More" the other night, and it truly hit home. I love the analogy they use of the blackboard filled up with all of our mistakes, and God washes it clean. I can fill a blackboard with all of my past mistakes, but the love and forgiveness of God through our Savior Jesus cleans that slate and makes us new.
I hope it gives you encouragement as it did for me.
Until next time...
Rob Langer
I hope it gives you encouragement as it did for me.
Until next time...
Rob Langer
Wednesday, June 1, 2011
Humility in our Christian Life
I know I am not the only one who has seen people from different denominations bicker about their differences, and believing that their way to salvation is the only way. I came across this opinion piece.
Five Words That Could Save the Church- Fox News
The writer has a very good point. Christians should be working to unite the church, not divide.
You know what.. those five words words may work in every day conversation, too...
Hoping your news is good news...
Rob Langer
Five Words That Could Save the Church- Fox News
The writer has a very good point. Christians should be working to unite the church, not divide.
You know what.. those five words words may work in every day conversation, too...
Hoping your news is good news...
Rob Langer
Friday, May 27, 2011
A day to always remember
Yes. It finally happened. My one and only daughter got married last Saturday. As I write these words she is on her honeymoon- and I am trying to adjust to the idea of having a son-in-law. The week before the wedding my son downloaded "Butterfly Kisses" to see if he could make me cry. (it didn't work)
I have to tell you that parts of the celebration were exactly how I imagined it- beautiful gathering of friends, folks, and family from around the country. A hot Atlanta evening. The amazing setting of Piedmont Park. My daughter was beautiful (though even more stunning and beautiful than I imagined she would be). At some level I expected all of that.
There were two things in particular though that did surprise me:
1) How fast it all went by. The week or week and a half leading up to the wedding felt like the fastest roller coaster I had ever ridden. When the day was over it all came to a very abrupt stop. The investments of preparation, prayer, and communication had quickly come and gone. (I am thankful for photos and a video that will help re-live the moments in the future).
2) I sensed an amazing peace- no doubt the answer to many prayers. A quiet confidence and the presence of Jesus. Walking through each step of the day with me- bringing a peace that passed human understanding. I am very grateful to God for making this day one I will remember and be grateful for the rest of my life!
Thanks for praying for the life Jason and Shereen will share together as husband and wife.
I have to tell you that parts of the celebration were exactly how I imagined it- beautiful gathering of friends, folks, and family from around the country. A hot Atlanta evening. The amazing setting of Piedmont Park. My daughter was beautiful (though even more stunning and beautiful than I imagined she would be). At some level I expected all of that.
There were two things in particular though that did surprise me:
1) How fast it all went by. The week or week and a half leading up to the wedding felt like the fastest roller coaster I had ever ridden. When the day was over it all came to a very abrupt stop. The investments of preparation, prayer, and communication had quickly come and gone. (I am thankful for photos and a video that will help re-live the moments in the future).
2) I sensed an amazing peace- no doubt the answer to many prayers. A quiet confidence and the presence of Jesus. Walking through each step of the day with me- bringing a peace that passed human understanding. I am very grateful to God for making this day one I will remember and be grateful for the rest of my life!
Thanks for praying for the life Jason and Shereen will share together as husband and wife.
Memorial Day
This is a time that we remember all those courageous soldiers who fought and died in service for our country. I truly feel blessed to be living in this free country, and it is due to all those that serve in our armed forces.
I think this bible verse can serve very well to those that died for our freedom- "Greater love has no one than this, that one lay down his life for his friends." (John 15:13)
Take time to remember our fallen this weekend. I found this great song by Avalon called "For Freedom". God bless our military!
Have a wonderful and safe Memorial Day weekend!
I think this bible verse can serve very well to those that died for our freedom- "Greater love has no one than this, that one lay down his life for his friends." (John 15:13)
Take time to remember our fallen this weekend. I found this great song by Avalon called "For Freedom". God bless our military!
Have a wonderful and safe Memorial Day weekend!
Building 429 New Video & CD: Watch & Listen Here
Hey, Jerry Williams here. Thought I'd jump over on the J93.3 Blog to tell you about the new projects from Building 429. (You can usually catch me blogging at And Jerry.)
The CD, "Listen To The Sounds" came out on May 10. You can listen to it, for free, here.
And you can watch the video here:
Building 429 will also be at Atlanta Fest, June 15 - 18 at Stone Mountain. Details and tickets are available through the J93.3 website.
Now back to your regularly scheduled bloggers.
The CD, "Listen To The Sounds" came out on May 10. You can listen to it, for free, here.
And you can watch the video here:
Building 429 will also be at Atlanta Fest, June 15 - 18 at Stone Mountain. Details and tickets are available through the J93.3 website.
Now back to your regularly scheduled bloggers.
Friday, May 20, 2011
A little Friday laughter!
My daughter Maddie introduced me to the work of Christian comedian Tim Hawkins. Funny stuff! Hope you enjoy it!
Happy Friday!
Rob Langer
Happy Friday!
Rob Langer
Wednesday, May 18, 2011
What's Next
Welcome to my first J93.3 blog! It's an exciting time. Time to let my heart and mind speak via the internet. I can speak, but writing!? (Okay, God... let the fingers do the talking for You!)
There's been a lot on my heart about the future. What does God have in store for me, for you, for the station, for our community? We don't know, but He certainly does (Jeremiah 29:11 is where I always keep coming back to...)
The one thing I do know- we HAVE to do it with God! As much as we want to control the situation, our path and our decisions, we can't do it alone! HE has to be with us, and we must succumb to HIS will. God, after all, wants good for us. We need to trust Him, because we can't do it all by ourselves.
If you, like me, are struggling with that, open up to God, and let Him calm your fears, and guide you.
Please feel free to comment, post a prayer request, share with others your story.
Blessings to you! Until next time...
There's been a lot on my heart about the future. What does God have in store for me, for you, for the station, for our community? We don't know, but He certainly does (Jeremiah 29:11 is where I always keep coming back to...)
The one thing I do know- we HAVE to do it with God! As much as we want to control the situation, our path and our decisions, we can't do it alone! HE has to be with us, and we must succumb to HIS will. God, after all, wants good for us. We need to trust Him, because we can't do it all by ourselves.
If you, like me, are struggling with that, open up to God, and let Him calm your fears, and guide you.
Please feel free to comment, post a prayer request, share with others your story.
Blessings to you! Until next time...
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